What's new
Cooking Forum

Welcome to SpicePlace Cooking Forum.
This site is now a read-only archive. Registration and posting are disabled.

She's been gone a long time, but Grandma's b-day is drawing near...

chubbyalaskagriz

New member
What are some of your grandma-kitchen memories?

My maternal grand mother was raised in Hickory Flat, Mississippi. She always said her own mother had the biggest hands she'd ever seen on a woman. She later married and moved to Stuttgart, Arkansas and married Floyd who worked in the rice fields and loved to hunt & fish.

They had 7 kids and my Mom and a set of twins were the youngest 3.

Raising 7 kids was hard and Grandpa escaped to the woods and ponds too often to suit her. So came a time when the marriage got too rocky for Grandma to take, so she took her 3 youngest north to Peoria, Illinois where she settled into a 3-room house and a job working in the cafeteria of St. Francis Hospital. After working and saving for a year she sent for the remaining 4 children and they all lived in that 3-room house.

Needless to say- they were poor. But Grandma was a great cook w/ great skills and lack of money didn't stop her from cooking up a storm.

Her Sunday Dinners and Holiday Meals were legendary- pan-fried chicken for a crowd, ham, turkey, cakes & pies... and there was always this bowl of a fruit and coconut thing she made w/ sherry.

...her do-ahead cold Christmas Eve supper menu was the same every year: scroodle salad w/ cubes of spam and velveeta dressed w/ miracle whip, chicken salad finger sandwiches, mincemeat slab pie squares, and always a bottomless pitcher of red fruit punch she made by dumping cans of various condensed juices together w/ 7-Up.

A few things I remember from her everyday kitchen were:

She always had a bundle of sliced American cheese in her fridge that she'd swiped from work- we grandkids usta raid that all the time!

She always kept a bag of jewel-colored Brachs Jube Jell candies in the fridge so they'd stay real hard. Both she and her pug-dog Penny loved those! (Penny also aid Rolaids!)

Grandma's breakfast each morning was brewed coffee that she first poured into a cup- then poured in smaller "batches" into her saucer to cool- then she lifted the saucer to her mouth to sip from it. And always a pair of sunny-side-up eggs loaded w/ the coarsest black pepper she could find at Krogers.

Grandma also always had a cake in her kitchen. Usually on her Sundays off she'd bake the cake she'd found the recipe for the Friday before in the Peoria Journal Star. She kept a 9X13" metal cake pan w/ a sliding lid on a rolling cart near her table and if the cake called for frosting- she'd omit it. I cannot remember a visit to Grandma's where we did not have cake and sneak her swiped American cheese!

She soaked her white polyester uniform dresses in a tub of Miracle White. But on special occasions she always wore the brightest most coloful slacks and blouses and I swear she musta owned a hundred purses in every color possible! She had a matching purse for every outfit she owned!

Growing up we made the trip to Arkansas often to visit relatives. A few times we took Grandma w/ us. Grandpa Floyd never re-married and he kept a terribly messy house- and each time Grandma would spend days at his place cleaning it, washing weeks worth of old crusty plates and dishes, scrubbing floors and walls, even washing/pressing kitchen curtains that hung over the sink. I remember one time she was at the table w/ the wall clock taken apart and she was using Q-tips to clean the grease that clung to it from from hanging over Grandpa's fish fryer on the stove burner!

Grandma was a big woman and not all sugary sweet. But she had a large brood to raise all on her own and focusing on hard work to keep those kids fed was her highest priorty- she had to show her love in other ways. And remarkably she met her most important goal of getting all her girls married off early- and all her boys into the military.

Happy Birthday Grandma!
 
Back
Top