not sure where the "Thou Shallt Not Consume Fried Fish" thing is coming from but frying - pan or deep - when done properly adds very little oil to a dish, and using something like olive oil, can be 'good' for you too (the olive oil low heart disease Mediterranean diet theory,,,,)
"properly" means the right (high) temperature. putting a breaded anything in oil that's too cool results in the oil being absorbed - the breaded thingie should sizzle & fizzle the instant it hits the oil.
I bread & pan fry fish, pork, schnitzels, beef, chicken - about the only thing I deep fry anymore is beer battered butterfly shrimp.
stuff that takes longer to cook - like a breaded pork chop - I saute for color & crunch, finish in a 325-350'F oven on a rack. stuff like fish cooks thru by the time you've got color (except really thick pcs - like a salmon steak)
if you want nice color in a fake&bake routine, try browning the bread crumbs before breading . . .