chubbyalaskagriz
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BD, at your next forum, I suggest you make some changes in your approach. Obviously, if at TWO completely different and seperate forums if the folks at both ended up turning out to feel the SAME way about your perceived online persona- then somethin's gotta give.
In your photo you look every bit the same age as I am- and by golly anyone who has reached middle age ought to have by-Gawd learned that there is a certain scale of accepted bahaviors that folks need to be able to exhibit to "hang". And those who insist on loitering outside that expected range? Often get called onto the carpet for a reaming. Folks expect proper well-behaved exchanges from those in their circle. It's one of those 'rules of the jungle', dude. And if those at TWO forums have had to call you on this- either that's one rare coincidence- OR there's gotta be somethin to it. You might wanna really, really consider that.
Like the old saying says: "The definition of insanity? Doing the same thing over and over and over again- but expecting different results." It ain't like anyone's asking you to change who you are- only how you behave.
Poor behavior can change. In fact, the way someone interacts with others can change easily. Teachers everywhere fill out report cards of children directing them to "behave better and to improve their skills at 'playing with others' ".
There's nothing wrong w/ YOU. But some of your behavior could stand a re-vamp. Basic social skills are often overlooked in our world- but the truth is, those with stand-out poor abilities at pulling their weight well and properly in a group stick out like a sore damned thumb.
I wish you the best- but I also wish you reform, dude. Best to ya, and I mean that most sincerely.
In your photo you look every bit the same age as I am- and by golly anyone who has reached middle age ought to have by-Gawd learned that there is a certain scale of accepted bahaviors that folks need to be able to exhibit to "hang". And those who insist on loitering outside that expected range? Often get called onto the carpet for a reaming. Folks expect proper well-behaved exchanges from those in their circle. It's one of those 'rules of the jungle', dude. And if those at TWO forums have had to call you on this- either that's one rare coincidence- OR there's gotta be somethin to it. You might wanna really, really consider that.
Like the old saying says: "The definition of insanity? Doing the same thing over and over and over again- but expecting different results." It ain't like anyone's asking you to change who you are- only how you behave.
Poor behavior can change. In fact, the way someone interacts with others can change easily. Teachers everywhere fill out report cards of children directing them to "behave better and to improve their skills at 'playing with others' ".
There's nothing wrong w/ YOU. But some of your behavior could stand a re-vamp. Basic social skills are often overlooked in our world- but the truth is, those with stand-out poor abilities at pulling their weight well and properly in a group stick out like a sore damned thumb.
I wish you the best- but I also wish you reform, dude. Best to ya, and I mean that most sincerely.
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