
expatgirl wrote:
Same here
I will try and be polite to my hosts and sample all that is prepared but if it looks especially revolting or has an unusual smell, no way
it's far ruder to gag in public and my dentist will assure you that I have the most developed gag reflex he's ever seen. Ha!! I usually ask my guests ahead of time if they like certain dishes or is there anything that they can't eat and I'm glad that I have
I'm amazed at the number of people who don't like shellfish or seafood. When asked myself, as we know many Brits, I tell them anything except organ meats and lamb. So that's a good way for people not to be embarrassed.
I'm with you, epatgirl (though my money was on you being the "grin and bear it type"). I, too, would politely decline. I have, in fact, been in that unenviable position and witnessed the disappointment on hosts faces. My gag reflex (along with my non-adventurous palet) doesn't render me the most agreeable dinner guest.
When I was younger and went through my vegan phase I frequently had steak pushed on me ("You'll love it prepared
our way!"). At our home, like yourself, we always enquire in advance as to people's likes and dislikes. I was similarly surprised that so few people didn't like, or hadn't tried, shellfish (and this was on the east coast, where it was fresh and plentiful).
I lived in England for a few years when I was a kid -- the invites to tea were wonderful. Such a spread they put on, and was expected to be reciprocated. So much for dinner a few hours later. :eek: