because I'm an ass? does that work?isn't nice to have someone try to stump you on a recipe site?? I wonder why??
try plebis; my bad.
as for moderating, thanks for the thought but no way.
the owner / administrator of this Forum has given up and gone away.
with no support, the situation is not likely going to improve.
as to "other" sites - if "you" do find "the perfect site" it's likely to have exactly one member - "you" - everything else is a compromise. if the half dozen "regulars" here can't find an acceptable home that is under control, oh well.....
there's no point to my further participation here, so to all I wish a healthy and happy future with a minimum of burnt pot bottoms!