My 6 year old came home today with a scratch on his arm. He said that 2 boys were picking on him and one of them scratched him. He told the bus driver and the driver did nothing, which shocks me to no end because the bus driver loves my son to death.

What do you think would be the appropriate action to take? Should I go down to the boys house and talk to his parent? By the way, the boys were about 12&13 yrs old.

Go to the school?

Do nothing and just pick him up from school??

I dont want to cause more problems for him like "oh your mommy had to come to school" or anything like that.....

Go complain with the principle of school.
The driver should not be so unresponsible.

My son was a bus driver this past year and I passed on to him your problem---he suggested that you complain to the school district first regarding the bus driver

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hopefully there would even be a tape of this incident--some buses carry tapes these days

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then of course to your son's school principal--see what happens from there. Good luck and hopefully a happy resolution of problems

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nothing boils my blood than kids who are allowed to pick on others

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my students knew that it WASN'T tolerated in my class. The quickest way to get into deep doo-doo in my class was to be a bully and pick on someone or humiliate them. Immediate phone calls went home to parents of children who persisted despite warnings or punishments from me. Always did the trick.

Well see, yesterday I actually talked to the bus driver. He REALLY IS a wonderful man. My son had a girl who was pulling his hair. ya know how they do when they're little. She likes him, she doesnt know how to show it so she pulls his hair. Why do we do that? LOL ANYWAYS.....

I went to the school yesterday and talked to the driver. The same driver as last year and we never had a single problem. He said it's hard to see those things because the kids are so little and the seats are so high so unless they say something to him, he doesn't always see. But said he WILL be talking to that girl !!!!!! He was not at ALL happy about this happening.

So then today my son gets off the bus and has this horrible look on his face and I asked what was wrong and he told me what had happened. He said that he DID tell the driver....but I'm honestly wondering if he heard it because my son's so soft spoken.

I absolutely hate that he's being picked on and it's SO strange because last year he was so popular with the kids. I went to an open house one night and it was like EVERYONE knew him... right on up to the 8th graders and they were fighting to say hi to him.

So why on earth did this change? This boy looked out for him LAST year. Why would he be helping this new kid pick on him????

My son's very smart & uses big words. I'd like to teach him to say "Do you know what disciplinary action is? Cuz if you touch me 1 more time you're gonna find out" *smiles*

And by the way, I appreciate your thoughts.

Oh -- I apologize for a 2nd post -- but as far as the tapes on the bus. We can pretty well rule that out. I think there are a total of maybe 15 kids on the bus. This is a very small district!!!!! Only 10 kids in my sons class.