The guy who fixed the ac asked me if I had ever seen the landlord with a woman lol. I was like uhhh no...but I dont exactly keep a look out either lol. The landlord is 50 or so and lives at home with his Mom and Dad. His Dad is a preacher. Maybe I can get Kevin his number lol. You know how small towns are :rolleyes:
RE: "Maybe I can get Kevin his number lol. "
Ha, janie!
Well... maybeeeeeeee.... but sometimes, I kinda like a strong handshake too! Hee-Hee!
Ha, janie!
Well... maybeeeeeeee.... but sometimes, I kinda like a strong handshake too! Hee-Hee!
Im not sure why people keep asking me about the guy. He is my landlord and Im not his keeper. People seem to think he is hiding his preferences cause his Dad is a preacher. His preferences make zero difference to me and if it does to everyone else then that it their problem. So what he doesnt have a girlfriend? I never even dated a guy til I met my husband and I was 28 then. I can imagine there was talk about me to lol.
I'm with ya, janie!
I've found that folks always seem real interested in others' sex lives- and if there ain't enuf "knowns" most aren't above makin' some up! And among these people, sometimes the more "exotic" or "whacko", the better the tale-tellin'! Sheesh!
Today I keep no secrets... but years ago before I was totally out and open, I had some co-workers who liked to think they knew all there was to know about my love-life and they weren't above startin' rumors and passin' around untruths. One day I cornered a couple of them on it and told them I only WISH my real life was as adventurous as they were making it out to be. Once I assured them that my own life was likely just as boring as their own- I think they realized that just because someone might be "different" on certain levels doesn't necessarily make them a deviant or a nut-case! I think what scared them was that I was really more LIKE them, than many others were.
I've found that folks always seem real interested in others' sex lives- and if there ain't enuf "knowns" most aren't above makin' some up! And among these people, sometimes the more "exotic" or "whacko", the better the tale-tellin'! Sheesh!
Today I keep no secrets... but years ago before I was totally out and open, I had some co-workers who liked to think they knew all there was to know about my love-life and they weren't above startin' rumors and passin' around untruths. One day I cornered a couple of them on it and told them I only WISH my real life was as adventurous as they were making it out to be. Once I assured them that my own life was likely just as boring as their own- I think they realized that just because someone might be "different" on certain levels doesn't necessarily make them a deviant or a nut-case! I think what scared them was that I was really more LIKE them, than many others were.
I have a cousin who is like a year older than me. Years ago they used to have the family reunions at my Mom and Dads cause we had a huge yard. One year all of my Moms sisters and brother along with some busy bodies on my Dads side let my cousin who had just come out know she wasnt welcomed to the reunion.
That made me boil! She stopped by a few days before the reunion to let us know she wasnt coming. I took her out on the porch and told her my Mom, Dad and I all welcomed her. It was our house and if the rest didnt like it then they could kiss my tail. My aunts and uncles are the biggest bunch of religious hypocrites you ever want to meet. I normally took a cooler of cold diet pepsi and a stock of videos to watch and stayd in my room all day when it was going on. I told her if she wanted to come Id stay by her side the whole time and trust me I would have peeled anyone alive who said anything out of the way to her. I told my younger sis to let me know is she showed which she did with her brother. I went out and hung out with them for about an hour til they left. My aunts and uncles had enough sense to catch the look I shot them when ever they came over to talk. Be nice or else :mad:
I had a hard time tolerating that crew anyway and the thought of them ganging up on her didnt sit well. Im very easy going til you mess with me or mine then its on. Bunch of bullies should have practiced some of what they preached.
That made me boil! She stopped by a few days before the reunion to let us know she wasnt coming. I took her out on the porch and told her my Mom, Dad and I all welcomed her. It was our house and if the rest didnt like it then they could kiss my tail. My aunts and uncles are the biggest bunch of religious hypocrites you ever want to meet. I normally took a cooler of cold diet pepsi and a stock of videos to watch and stayd in my room all day when it was going on. I told her if she wanted to come Id stay by her side the whole time and trust me I would have peeled anyone alive who said anything out of the way to her. I told my younger sis to let me know is she showed which she did with her brother. I went out and hung out with them for about an hour til they left. My aunts and uncles had enough sense to catch the look I shot them when ever they came over to talk. Be nice or else :mad:
I had a hard time tolerating that crew anyway and the thought of them ganging up on her didnt sit well. Im very easy going til you mess with me or mine then its on. Bunch of bullies should have practiced some of what they preached.