Thursday November 26 is Thanksgiving.
You know that is the costume I liked the best also
For the past several years my sister in law has been having a Thanksgiving dinner at their house and my father in law goes down there to eat. A few days before I will make a smaller little Thanksgiving dinner for just him, my husband and I. It is very cozy just the three of us. Jon and I do not go to the dinner his brother has and their place on Thanksgiving. I make dinner here for the two of us on Thanksgiving. We usually have lamb or duck.
Sometimes my brother will bring me a turkey and ask me to make their Thanksgiving dinner so he can pick it up lol. Those years I am exhaused! His wife doesnt cook though. My inlaws are divorced so we work in a Thanksgiving dinner at his Moms and stepdads in there somewhere.
Last year I made Thanksgiving dinner for the whole family at his Dad's because my sister in law was very pregnant and not feeling well.
For Christmas we used to go to his Dads on the 25 of December. Then his brother wanted to be able to stay home on Christmas so we usually do a day or so before at his Dads. We have a big ham and turkey with tons of sides and desserts. I am cooking for atleast 3 days before. I work on candies I want to make one day. Pop the turkey in its brine the day before I want to bake it. I make the desserts & homemade bread the evening before and all of the side dishes that can be served cold or at room temperature. My husband and I take them all to his Dad's to store in the fridge the day before the dinner. If we are not doing dinner at his Dads on Christmas Eve then we do his Mom's dinner on that day which always puts me behind getting my things done. I am always up all night the before the dinner at his Dads cooking. THAT is the one time a year my small kitchen becomes a pain.
My father in law usually makes some things for the dinner. He will make green beans with potatoes and ham. He buys some of the bake and serve rolls and he has a couple of things he has created he likes to make like turkey meatballs in mushroom gravy.